Good As You

I could not watch the viodeo's as I am at work, however, I was Mormon for 38 years, served my mission and got married in the San Diego temple. I was married for 12 years and during that time, was sent to numerous therapists and counselors to overcome my same-sex desire. My wife was patient and understanding, however, we were both unhappy. I was faithful, read the scriptures, prayed and fasted, went tot eh Temple and attended all the numerous meetings and filled my callings in the church. I had to believe that if I was faithful enough, God would change me, what other choice did I have as a Mormon?

Finally, I had the realization that maybe the problem was not me, maybe I was not broken and felt the way I did for a reason and maybe God could still love me. My wife and I seperated, and while it has been hard, I am finally happy in my life. I would not recommend marriage to "fix" homosexuality. I do not believe the church recommends this any longer as they recognize the unfairness to the spouses involved. I wish I had come to my realization earlier, however, I do not now regret my deicison to get a divorce and leave the church.

Wonderful testimony Todd. Thanks for sharing.

The problem is religion has done more harm to GLBT folks than helped. Faith in God alone is something totally different. After embracing faith in God alone all other man-made doctrine and traditions suddenly melt away. True freedom I believe lies with us accepting a personal relationship with Christ alone. I find that religion hinders that relationship.